Parental Bereavement Leave and Pay after a child dies or is stillborn, Bereaved Partner's Paternity Leave, time off for dependants and Bereavement Support Payment.
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Check My Bereavement Leave →Employees in England, Wales or Scotland who want to know what time off and pay they can get after someone dies: a child, a baby stillborn after 24 weeks of pregnancy, a partner, a parent or someone else close to them. It also covers Bereavement Support Payment after a partner's death.
You can take 2 weeks of Parental Bereavement Leave for each child who has died or was stillborn, from your first day with your employer.
You can take 2 weeks together, 2 separate weeks, or only one week. A week is the number of days you normally work in a week, so it is 2 days if you only work on Mondays and Tuesdays.
The leave can start on or after the date of the death or stillbirth, and must finish within 56 weeks of that date.
If you are on another type of statutory leave when the child dies, such as maternity or paternity leave, Parental Bereavement Leave starts after that leave has ended. It does not have to follow straight after it.
You may qualify as the child's parent (biological, adoptive, or a parent of a child born to a surrogate) or as the partner of the child's parent. You may also qualify if the child lived with you for 4 continuous weeks before the death and you or your partner had day to day responsibility for their care. There are detailed rules on who counts: check GOV.UK.
Your employment rights are protected while you are on Parental Bereavement Leave, including pay rises, building up holiday and returning to work.
If you take the leave in the first 8 weeks after the death or stillbirth, tell your employer before you would normally start work on the first day of the week or weeks you want off.
If you take it 9 to 56 weeks after, give your employer at least one week's notice before the leave starts.
Tell them the date of the death or stillbirth, when you want the leave to begin, and whether you are taking 1 or 2 weeks. You can do this by phone, voicemail, text or email. It does not have to be in writing, and you do not need to give proof of the death or stillbirth.
Statutory Parental Bereavement Pay is £194.32 a week or 90% of your average weekly earnings, whichever is lower. It is paid in the same way as your wages, with tax and National Insurance taken off.
To get it, all of these must apply:
If you do not meet the 26-week or earnings test, you can still take the 2 weeks of leave. It is unpaid, unless your contract pays more.
Ask for the pay within 28 days, counting from the first day of the week you are claiming for. Each time, give your employer in writing your name, the dates you are claiming for and the date of the death or stillbirth. The first time, also give a declaration that you are eligible: you can do this online on GOV.UK, in writing, or on your employer's own form.
If you cannot sort out Statutory Parental Bereavement Pay with your employer, contact the HMRC Statutory Payment Dispute Team. Disputes about the pay are decided by HMRC, not by a tribunal.
If you are refused the leave, dismissed or treated unfairly for taking Parental Bereavement Leave or time off for dependants, talk to Acas. You can make a claim to an employment tribunal. Before most claims, you must notify Acas to start early conciliation. It is free. Your time limit is paused while conciliation runs, but only if you notify Acas within your time limit.
If the mother, main adopter or main intended parent of your child dies, you may be able to take unpaid Bereaved Partner's Paternity Leave to look after your child. It applies where the death was on or after 6 April 2026. The law is the Bereaved Partner's Paternity Leave Regulations 2026.
You must be classed as an employee in England, Scotland or Wales. Your child must be less than a year old or, if you adopted, must have been in your care for less than a year.
You can take up to 52 weeks, all in one continuous block, starting from the day after the death. It must finish by your child's first birthday, or by the first anniversary of the adoption placement.
The leave is unpaid. You can take it before or after any other parental leave and pay you are eligible for, and your employment rights are protected while you are on it. There are rules about notice: ask Acas.
As an employee you have a right to time off if a dependant dies. A dependant could be your husband, wife, civil partner or partner, your child, your parent, someone who lives in your household (not a tenant, lodger or employee), or someone who relies on you, such as an elderly neighbour.
The law does not say how much time off. It says the amount should be reasonable. The time off is for dealing with unexpected issues and emergencies involving the dependant, including arranging or attending the funeral.
There is no legal right for time off for dependants to be paid. Some employers pay: check your contract or your employer's policy.
If the person who died was not your child or a dependant, there is no legal right to time off. Your employer's compassionate, bereavement or special leave policy may give you time off, and your employer can agree other leave with you.
A wider right to bereavement leave, including after pregnancy loss, is in the Employment Rights Act 2025 but is not in force yet. Until it starts, the rights in this guide are the legal rights.
Bereavement Support Payment is paid by the government if your husband, wife, civil partner or partner has died. It is not paid because a child has died.
You must have been under State Pension age when your partner died, and it depends on your partner's National Insurance contributions. It stops when you reach State Pension age. Check the full rules on GOV.UK.
If you were married or in a civil partnership, you get the higher rate if, when your partner died, you were getting Child Benefit for a child who lived with you, you were entitled to it, or you were pregnant. The most you can get is a one-off payment of £3,500 and 18 monthly payments of £350.
Otherwise you get the lower rate: a one-off payment of £2,500 and up to 18 monthly payments of £100.
If you were living together as if you were married, the most you can get is a one-off payment of £3,500 and 18 monthly payments of £350.
Claim within 3 months of your partner's death to get the one-off payment and all 18 monthly payments. Between 3 and 12 months, you get the one-off payment but only some of the monthly payments. Between 12 and 21 months, you get no one-off payment but some monthly payments. After 21 months you usually cannot get any payments.
Acas: 0300 123 1100 (Monday to Friday, 8am to 6pm), acas.org.uk. Free advice on time off after a death, dismissal and early conciliation.
HMRC Statutory Payment Dispute Team: 0300 322 9422 (Monday to Friday, 8:30am to 5pm). For Statutory Parental Bereavement Pay problems you cannot sort out with your employer.
Free advice is also available from Citizens Advice, and from your trade union if you have one.
Citizens Advice (England): 0800 144 8848
Citizens Advice (Wales): 0800 702 2020
Citizens Advice Scotland: 0800 028 1456
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