Adoption leave and pay, paternity leave and pay, antenatal appointments and the surrogate's own rights, with who qualifies and how to tell your employer.
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Check My Surrogacy Leave →Intended parents having a baby through surrogacy, and surrogates, who work in England, Wales or Scotland and want to know what leave and pay they can get from work, how to ask for it, and their rights if their employer gets it wrong.
If you are eligible, one of you can take adoption leave and the other can take paternity leave. It is up to you to decide which of you takes which.
Only one of you can get adoption leave and pay. You cannot change or swap once you have told your employers.
If you are genetically related to the child, you can choose paternity leave and pay instead of adoption leave and pay, but you cannot get both.
You may also be able to share leave and pay through Shared Parental Leave and Pay.
If you do not qualify for paid leave, you may be able to take parental leave or annual leave. Your employer may offer more than the legal minimum, but never less.
Statutory Adoption Leave is up to 52 weeks: 26 weeks of Ordinary Adoption Leave and 26 weeks of Additional Adoption Leave.
Employees have the right to adoption leave from their first day in the job. It does not depend on how long you have worked there.
In a surrogacy case, adoption leave starts on the day the baby is born, or the day after if you are at work that day. If the baby arrives early, your leave starts straight away: let your employer know as soon as you can.
During adoption leave your employment rights are protected, including pay rises and going back to work, and you build up holiday as normal.
Statutory Adoption Pay is paid for up to 39 weeks. For the first 6 weeks you get 90% of your average weekly earnings.
For the next 33 weeks you get £194.32 a week or 90% of your average weekly earnings, whichever is lower. This rate applies from 6 April 2026.
It is paid in the same way as your wages, and tax and National Insurance are deducted. It starts when your adoption leave starts.
You qualify for Statutory Adoption Pay if all of these apply:
For adoption pay in a surrogacy case, the 26 weeks are counted up to the 15th week before the week the baby is due, not up to a matching date.
If your employer decides you cannot get Statutory Adoption Pay, they must give you form SAP1 within 7 days of making that decision, explaining why.
If you disagree with the amount you get, or your employer cannot pay it (for example because it is insolvent), contact the HMRC Statutory Payment Dispute Team.
No later than the 15th week before the expected week of birth, tell your employer the week the baby is due and when you want your adoption leave to start. It is a good idea to do this in writing, and your employer can ask for it in writing.
Where possible, give at least 28 days' notice of the date you want your adoption pay to start.
Your employer must reply in writing within 28 days, confirming the date your adoption leave will run to.
Your employer can ask for a statutory declaration: a written statement, signed in front of a legal professional, that you have applied or will apply for a parental order in the 6 months after the birth.
To change the start date of your adoption leave, tell your employer at least 28 days before the date it is due to start, or at least 28 days before the earlier date you want.
From 6 April 2026, paternity leave is a right from your first day of employment. Before that date, employees needed 26 weeks of service.
To take paternity leave, you must intend to apply for a parental order in the 6 months after the birth and expect it to be granted.
You can take 1 or 2 weeks of paternity leave, together or as 2 separate weeks. It can start on the day the baby is born (or the day after if you are working that day) or a later date you choose, and it must end within 52 weeks of the birth.
Statutory Paternity Pay is £194.32 a week or 90% of your average weekly earnings, whichever is lower.
For Statutory Paternity Pay you must be the spouse, civil partner or partner of the other intended parent (including same-sex partners) and share the main responsibility for the child. You must also have at least 26 weeks of continuous employment up to any day in the qualifying week, still be employed by the same employer at the birth, and earn on average at least £129 a week.
The qualifying week is the 15th week before the week the baby is expected.
By the end of the qualifying week, tell your employer the expected date of birth, and confirm in writing that you expect to be responsible for bringing up the child, that you are the partner of the other intended parent, and that you are both parental order parents. You can use a letter, an email or GOV.UK form SC4.
Give your employer the start date and length of each period of paternity leave at least 28 days before it starts. Tell them the actual date of birth as soon as you can after the birth.
Workers are not entitled to paternity leave, but they might be entitled to statutory paternity pay.
As an intended parent, you can take unpaid time off to go to 2 antenatal appointments with the person giving birth. If you are a couple, only one of you can take this time off, and you decide which.
You can take up to 6 and a half hours off work for each appointment. Employees need no minimum service for this. Agency workers need 12 weeks in the same job with the same hirer.
Your employer cannot ask for proof of the appointment, but can ask you to sign a written declaration that you are taking the time off to go to one.
You can agree with your employer to work up to 10 keeping in touch days during adoption leave. Part of a day counts as a full day. If you work more than 10, your adoption leave and pay end automatically.
If you have taken 26 weeks of adoption leave or less, you have the right to go back to the same job.
If you have taken more than 26 weeks, you have the right to go back to the same job unless your employer has a good reason to offer a similar one. It must be suitable and appropriate, and no worse on pay, benefits, holiday, seniority or location.
If you do not give a return date, your employer will assume you are coming back after 52 weeks. To come back earlier, give 8 weeks' notice.
You might also get neonatal care leave and pay, on top of adoption leave. It is a right from your first day in a job, once the baby has been in neonatal care for at least 7 days in a row, and it lasts up to 12 weeks depending on how long the care lasts.
Every pregnant employee has the right to 52 weeks' maternity leave and to return to their job afterwards. What a surrogate does after the child is born does not affect their right to maternity leave.
The person carrying the baby is entitled to time off for antenatal appointments. For maternity pay and the rest of the maternity rules, use the maternity pay checker.
Your employer should not dismiss you or treat you unfairly because you are taking adoption leave. There is extra redundancy protection for employees who take adoption leave.
A dismissal where the main reason is that you wanted to take family leave, such as adoption, paternity or parental leave, is automatically unfair. You do not need 2 years' service to claim.
You can make a claim to an employment tribunal. Before most claims, you must notify Acas to start early conciliation. It is free. Your time limit is paused while conciliation runs, but only if you notify Acas within your time limit.
Acas: 0300 123 1100 (Monday to Friday, 8am to 6pm), acas.org.uk. Free advice on adoption and paternity leave and pay in surrogacy cases, dismissal and early conciliation.
HMRC Statutory Payment Dispute Team: 0300 322 9422 (Monday to Friday, 8:30am to 5pm). For adoption or paternity pay problems you cannot sort out with your employer.
For parental orders and legal parenthood, see GOV.UK or ask a family law solicitor. Free advice is also available from Citizens Advice, and from your trade union if you have one.
Citizens Advice (England): 0800 144 8848
Citizens Advice (Wales): 0800 702 2020
Citizens Advice Scotland: 0800 028 1456
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